ADHD coaching for real life, whether you’re newly diagnosed, feeling overwhelmed, or just trying to hold it all together.
1:1 support, live group sessions, and practical tools that actually fit how your brain works.
I’m Fraser, an ADHD coach, father, and former corporate leader who didn’t realise I had ADHD until I was 43.
Like many late-diagnosed adults, I spent years thinking I just wasn’t good enough. I pushed myself hard, burnt out often, and masked my struggles to keep up with a world that didn’t quite fit.
When I finally got diagnosed, everything changed. I stopped blaming myself and started building a life that worked for my brain. Now I help others do the same.
I work with adults who feel overwhelmed, newly diagnosed, or stuck, offering practical strategies, honest conversations, and a place where they don’t have to explain themselves.
Whether it’s 1-to-1 coaching or a structured group programme, the goal is always the same:
To help you feel understood, and to help you move forward.
You always feel behind, even when you’re working flat out.
There’s a constant mental to-do list running in the background, and even small tasks feel like a mountain.
You’ve been called lazy, disorganised, or too sensitive.
But deep down, you know you’re trying harder than most people realise.
You procrastinate, overthink, and crash hard when you finally stop.
It’s not just time management — it’s emotional exhaustion, decision fatigue, and never feeling like you’re doing enough.
You’ve Googled ‘Do I have ADHD?’ more than once.
Maybe you’ve been diagnosed. Maybe not. But you know something isn’t working, and you’re ready for support that actually makes sense for your brain.
Helping ADHD Adults Feel Less Alone — and More in Control
Get tailored support with practical tools, calm accountability, and a coach who gets how your brain works.
Perfect if you're ready for personalised help, but not sure where to start.
Live coaching, structure, and a toolkit that actually fits your brain — all in a space where you realise you're not the only one.
Ideal if you want guidance and to hear from others like you.
Not ready for coaching? Start with a personalised analysis based on your ADHD traits — and see what’s actually working in your brain.
A zero-pressure way to get insight, hope, and clarity.
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Is OCD Considered to be Linked to Neurodivergent People?
I’ll start with a confession: OCD isn’t something I personally struggle with a lot. My ADHD has been more than enough to keep me busy over the years… unpaid bills, missed MOTs, and a knack for leaving my contact lenses in places that don’t make sense.
That said, I’ve been asked this question so many times in my coaching work: is obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD) considered part of the neurodivergent spectrum? So, while it’s not my personal lived reality, I’ve dug deep into the research and spoken to many people who do live with it. And I did once post a video about checking our passports twenty times before going on holiday, even when I knew they were in my bag. For me, that comes from ADHD hyper-vigilance and no trust in my memory, not OCD… but it shows how the lines can feel blurry.
OCD, or obsessive-compulsive disorder, is medically classified as a mental health condition, not a neurodevelopmental disorder like ADHD or autism spectrum disorder.
It’s most often described as an anxiety disorder. The core features are:
Intrusive thoughts (obsessions) that feel overwhelming and unwanted
Compulsive behaviours or mental acts carried out to reduce anxiety
For example, someone might be plagued by thoughts of contamination, then feel compelled to wash their hands in a repetitive cycle. The difference from quirks or preferences is that these rituals are distressing and disruptive to daily life.
I understand why people lump OCD under the neurodivergent umbrella. There are overlapping traits:
Both OCD and autism can involve repetitive behaviours, though the reasons differ. For autistic people, repetition can be soothing or sensory-based. For someone with OCD, it’s about neutralising anxiety from intrusive thoughts.
ADHD and OCD sometimes appear together, and both involve the orbitofrontal cortex, anterior cingulate cortex, and basal ganglia – brain regions tied to decision-making and error detection.
Many neurodiversity advocates argue that OCD, like ADHD or autism, represents a form of neurological diversity and should be recognised as part of the wider conversation.
So medically, OCD is seen as an anxiety disorder, but in the real world, the intersection of OCD and neurodivergent conditions is messy. Many people with OCD experience their brains as wired differently, and that resonates strongly with the neurodiversity movement.
The way people describe OCD often reminds me of my own ADHD battles with trust in memory. That passport moment I mentioned? I knew full well I’d put them in my bag, but my brain was so hyper-alert that I kept checking again and again. The difference is, once I got through security, I could let it go. For someone with OCD, the cycle doesn’t always switch off so easily.
Symptoms of OCD can include:
Obsessive thoughts that won’t stop repeating
Compulsive behaviours like checking, counting, or repeating actions
Ritualistic behaviours that temporarily calm anxiety but eat into time
An impact on social interactions, work, and family life
It can drain quality of life and leave people exhausted, misunderstood, and ashamed… much like the way ADHD burnout shows up for many of us.
Over the years, I’ve met clients with ADHD who also have OCD, and others who are autistic with overlapping OCD traits. Co-occurrence is common, and it can make daily lives more complicated. For example:
Autistic individuals might have repetitive behaviours that overlap with OCD compulsions.
ADHD and OCD together can create a tug-of-war between impulsivity and obsessive control.
Tourette syndrome, PTSD, and mood disorders often intersect with OCD too.
This is why an accurate diagnosis is so important. OCD shares surface-level similarities with other neurodevelopmental conditions, but the underlying cause and treatment are often different.
Unlike ADHD or autism, OCD symptoms can often be reduced significantly with the right interventions. Common approaches include:
Cognitive-behavioural therapy (CBT), especially exposure and response prevention (ERP), which helps people resist compulsions in response to intrusive thoughts.
Selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs), which can reduce obsessive thoughts.
A tailored approach, especially if someone also has ADHD or is on the autism spectrum.
But support isn’t just medical. An inclusive environment plays a crucial role too. Just as ADHD and autism need understanding rather than judgement, OCD requires empathy and adjustments so people aren’t dismissed as quirky or difficult.
Here’s the honest answer: medically, OCD is considered a mental health disorder, not a neurodevelopmental condition. But many people with OCD identify with the neurodiversity framework, and for good reason. They experience their brains as working in unique ways, with unique challenges and sometimes unique strengths.
From my coaching perspective, I don’t get hung up on the exact label. Whether OCD sits neatly under the umbrella of neurodivergence or not, people living with it deserve recognition, support, and space to be understood.
And if you’ve ever stood in your hallway, checking your bag for passports twenty times… know that you’re not alone. Whether it’s OCD, ADHD, or just the hyper-vigilant saboteur in your brain, our human brains have funny ways of trying to keep us safe, even when it makes daily life harder.
If you’ve read this and thought, “This sounds a lot like me,” or if you live with ADHD, OCD, or another neurodivergent condition and want more clarity, there are a few ways I can help:
Free ADHD Analysis Tool
This is a great first step if you’re wondering how ADHD shows up in your daily life. It won’t diagnose OCD or ADHD, but it will help you see the patterns that might be driving overwhelm, memory struggles, or those looping thoughts that never seem to let you go.
1-to-1 Coaching
If you’re juggling ADHD, anxiety, or even elements of OCD, working together can help you untangle what’s going on and build strategies that actually stick. Coaching is about making daily life easier, not harder. For some people, it’s about learning to trust their memory again, for others it’s about creating routines that reduce stress and shame.
My 6-Week ADHD Course
This programme is designed for people who want structure, strategies, and the relief of hearing from others who’ve faced the same challenges. If OCD or intrusive thoughts overlap with ADHD, the course gives you tools for managing executive function, calming the chaos, and finding practical ways to get unstuck.
You’re always free to reach out to me if you have questions. I write these blogs and do this coaching because I care, and because I want people to get the support they deserve. Nobody should be left feeling broken just because their brain works differently.
Nope. Many people I work with are still figuring it out or self-identify based on lived experience. If you resonate with what you’ve read, you’re welcome here.
1:1 coaching gives you personalised support, we focus completely on your life, goals, and challenges.
The 6-week group programme gives you live guidance alongside others, so you hear real examples and realise you’re not the only one.
That’s totally normal. The best starting point for most people is the free ADHD Strengths Report. It gives you insight without pressure, and from there, you can decide if coaching or the course feels right.
No, coaching is future-focused and practical. I’m not a therapist, and I don’t work with severe mental health distress. But I do work with people who feel stuck, lost, overwhelmed, or unsure how to manage day-to-day life with ADHD. If we hit something therapy-related, I’ll help you find the right support.
It happens! You'll still get the tools and resources from that week, and I’ll send a recap. This programme is built with ADHD in mind, so flexibility is baked in.
Absolutely. Many people start in the group to get foundational tools and then move into 1:1 for deeper support. Or vice versa. There’s no wrong order, just what works for you.
Group Programme: £200 for the full 6 weeks
1:1 Coaching: £100 per session
Free ADHD Strengths Report: £0 — it’s truly free, no catch
That’s okay. Sign up for the free report, or drop me a message with your questions, follow me on social. No pressure. No guilt. Just support when you’re ready.
Whether you're curious about coaching, unsure where to start, or just want to ask a question — I'm happy to hear from you. There's no pressure to sign up or commit. Just send a message and I’ll get back to you soon.
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